February
1993
ONE SIZE FITS ALL
Occasionally I
buy an article of clothing that does not have a specific size
marked on it. Instead, the label says, "One size fits all".
Although the marvels of modern technology have provided us with various
stretch fabrics, the claim that one size fits all is somewhat
exaggerated. The only person who gets a fairly good fit is one
whose size is in the mid-range.
Sometimes the approach is a little
different. I recently bought a pair of foam insoles for my
shoes. I looked for my size, but all I saw were some marked, "One
size fits all". I wondered how that could be, since they were not
made out of stretch fabric. I soon found out. They were
made for the largest size. If your size was smaller, a pair of
scissors could be used to cut them down to size.
That set me to thinking about the way we so
often act. Sometimes the "One size fits all" philosophy is
expressed when we don't feel good about ourselves. We may adopt
some admired person as our model, and begin to pattern ourselves after
that person. Often we are frustrated because the other person's
pattern doesn't fit. Then we may either give up in defeat, or
redouble our efforts to be a copy.
Another way this philosophy is expressed is
when we do feel good about ourselves. In such a case, we may
consider ourselves to be the perfect size, and want everyone else to be
the same as we are. So with our critical words and judgmental
attitudes we "cut them down to size". Our size.
In each instance we are ignoring some
important truths about the way God created us. Each of us is a
unique creation of God, not an accidental combination of genes.
God made us the way we are because He wanted someone like that in His
world. We can improve on the person we are, of course, but we
remain the same person just the same.
To wish we were like someone else, is a denial
of our own uniqueness. To wish others were just like we are, is a
denial of their uniqueness. Either way, we are sitting in
judgment on God, who made us as we are.
Accept your uniqueness. Strive in the
power of the Spirit to be the best "you" possible. Accept the
uniqueness of others. Pray for and encourage them to be their
best also.
You'll be glad you did.
This article is a
gift to the body of Christ. Use it any way that will help people
and honor Him.